How does one succeed in life?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Why do most people care so much about what others think? Are they afraid of society norms?

Making more friends is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

How did you respond to, "Why do you love me"?

Does not procrastinate.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

What are the causes of over sweating?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Do you regret being married to your current wife?

Procrastinates a lot.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

What's the most trivial thing that ever made you go to the doctor?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Why is the covert narcissist actively avoiding me when they see me everyday?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Do empaths fall easier for abusive people?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Is it legal for an employer to ask why you are taking time off from work?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How do you cope when your mother doesn't love you?

That's it for today.

What I need from you?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What are some tips for balancing chores, work, and family life as an adult with children?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What is your best forbidden sex story that felt so right?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Ask yourself: